I have recently (past month or no updates) had a couple experiences at work. Mostly with one co-worker in particular. James is an older man who after a life of self-described wild ramblings and cuttings-up, has found his answers in the bible. Which is fine and wonderful for him, it seems to have brought him a lot of peace and stability to his life. In general he is a friendly, good-hearted guy, and we've always (and still do) get along.
In the past month he seems to have taken a specific interest in who believes what. Which led him to me. It started with him asking out of the blue one day, "Are you a religious person? Because I can tell by the way you behave and the way you treat people that you probably are or at least were raised in it."
I told him I was religious 'in a way' but I don't go to church anymore. I told him a few things about the way I was raised, but made sure to add that I know plenty of people that weren't raised in church that are good and I didn't believe you had to read the bible in order to have morals.
Ever since then, he has taken to suddenly not knowing what certain words in his bible are or what they mean; which leads him to ask me "what's this word here?" and pass me the bible. Which, I'm not complaining, I don't mind and who knows maybe he doesn't know the word (there are a lot of complicated/rarely used words in the kj version). But come on, I know what's really going on there. And again, I don't really mind it, it's just something I have noticed.
So the real point of this is, it's obvious this man cares about me (and my soul) in a platonic "hey you're a good pal and I'd hate to see you burn in hell" kind of way. As I said he is a nice guy with the best of intentions; but I have heard him speak at length about "people who take and do the wrong thing" and there is quite a list of these people...
I am one of those people (on more counts that just wicca) and I can't help but wonder how quickly this friendly little game of getting me to read the bible would change if I just up and said, "so when I said I was sort of religious, I am actually very religious, I'm just not in the same religion as you." It's not something I am likely to find out anytime soon. It's just something I can't help but think about.
Also, one of the girls at work lost her bible, and it occurred to me "well duh, how many of those do I have at home" which lead me to remember, "oh yeah, one, I left all the others at my parents house..." So I brought her my bible so she wouldn't have to shell out who-knows how much the bookstores charge for one these days. So I am pretty sure this random act of kindness/recycling has single-handedly assured everyone at work that James has me well on the path back to church...
So no, it wasn't my intention to fool him into leaving me alone (in fact I think this will probably lead to even more "bible time") I just wanted to do something nice for someone at work who's had a lot happen to her in the past few months.